On love magic

 

After some thought, I decided to write an article about love magic, which is controversial in itself. Firstly, because it unquestionably influences another person's will, and also because the most profitable activity in magic over the ages is love magic. There are, however, certain dangers for the witcher as well as for his client. 

Therefore, there are many taboos to be broken if one has conceived the intention of pursuing magic in this direction. 

Love, magic, and destiny are all rolled into one in love magic.  At the same time, each of these concepts represents something utterly elusive. First of all, each magician (meaning a state of mind) has a field of action only in the sphere of life that he himself lives. You don't expect a dentist to fix your car, nor do you expect a mechanic to drill your teeth. As such, magic affects daily living. Magic can do many things, but above all, it should work in personal life. When a magician has mastered a test in life, he himself can offer something to others in this regard. Before love, there is a need for respect, which those who do not experience it belittle. 

What the world is worth, the love magic is a highly sought-after area of magic that interests literally everyone. In folk practices, but also in the queries of various people ranging from those who want to kill a competitor, an unworthy partner, sometimes both, to reasonable requests, these planes intersect:

1. the power to influence one's own destiny,

2. to provide more than an opportunity to right their wrongs,

3. power over anyone's destiny.

First of all, it must be said that love magic is successful if it respects the lines of destiny, and to influence them is to influence your attitude in the first place. There is a plethora of different techniques and rituals using menstrual blood, semen, vaginal fluids, hair, pubic hair, the belongings of the beloved object, to mental magic techniques. These range from knowledge of Goetia entities or other systems that have the power to secure the love of a particular person for the operator, to various spells, usually of folk magic. I have studied many of these practices in various systems to get an idea of their applicability in practice.

Love magic must be lived. A matter neglected. It's not so much about hitting on someone in a way that is unusual for our time, as it is about perceiving love, experiencing it in harmony with the partner, respecting the partner, and also consistently excluding those interferences from all the third parties who mean well with our relationship or with us.  

But back to the "hitting it off with magic" thing, which is what popularization is all about. To choose a specific technique for each specific case. There is no such thing as a universally valid technique. A technique used in one case is, in my experience, no longer applicable to the same extent to another case. And also everything depends on the will, concentration, and state of confidence of the one who wants to win love in such a way, whether of a particular person or of a generally set astral advert. 

Side effects must always be taken into account. 

A very funny effect is when the person wanting someone gets their way. But then she doesn't want the relationship anymore, and it's very complicated to end the relationship with the bewitched. Usually, these are relationships where the lover's plane plays a pivotal role. There is practically nothing that can be done to prevent this effect.

Many a sorcerer has lost his own partner when he did not appreciate his own actions and practiced love magic for another. Intoxicated by the magic of interfering with who and how, he pisses off the Universe enough to give it a taste of its own medicine. 

Sometimes people try to override the lines of fate because they need to manifest their own power. Especially by interfering in another relationship. Sometimes people need to go through a phase with a particular partner, and it's completely unacceptable to interfere with that process. 

I personally don't cast spells for anyone. Moreover, I am personally convinced that the best and most convincing operator is the one involved in the affair. This is especially true in love magic. Even the most perfectly prepared and performed ritual with the best aids for the third person will fail once the mental setup of the third person fails. It is because of requests for interventions in love magic that they always reserve the right to refuse a client, although they only give advice in this respect.

But let's shed some light on the trinity described above:

1. The power to influence one's own destiny

Love magic is a matter of destiny. If two people have to be together, at some stage in their lives, they will meet and experience something together. But it doesn't have to be that idyllic. It happens that other people put their hands into the relationship. I don't even mean other lovers or mistresses, but aunts, parents, etc. The intervention of these people often leads to a reliable breakdown of the relationship. Taking fate into one's own hands means facing this condition and, through magic, to get rid of this influence and, as much as possible, to achieve the condition that the partners decide themselves whether and how long they stay together.

If someone thinks that if they do something and then hedge with the phrase: "I'll leave it to fate", and thinks that it's Ok, it's not. It's just a fairly well-functioning signal letting the Universe know that it can trigger a set of reversals. 

In the same way, someone who longs for love, but is not getting it, is able to use a well-chosen magical technique to get their condition changed. This doesn't mean that he or she will know the right partner right away, but it is quite possible that he or she will be given the opportunity to advance in relationships through multiple partners. There's also the thing that if he doesn't change his attitude, tough luck. How is a man supposed to change his attitude when someone else performs a one-time spell for him and he doesn't have to?

2. Provide yourself more than an opportunity to correct your mistakes

It is basically the right reason for the so-called rituals to get back a partner. First of all, here the situation requires working with what the abandoned partner believes is the reason for the relationship breakdown. Of course, it is the abandoned partner who has to work on this. No magical ritual will do this, and at most, they will suffer the victory of a farce where they get back together only to break up even worse. 

Often people have a chance to put their relationship back together, but often this chance is thwarted to the stage where the love and partner relationship can at best be transformed into a different kind of relationship. 

In such cases, it depends on the will of both parties. It just takes someone to start. Then it takes avoiding any doubt so that the will of the other has something to latch on to. If one of them performs the operation directly, the chances go up considerably.

3. Power over anyone's destiny 

Some individuals are motivated by a sense of power over the fate of others. It is an unsustainable long-term motivation to practice love magic. Whether it is a mother, an aunt, a friend, a jilted lover, etc., such motivation is a great way to use magic to complicate one's own life in the first place. Because such motivation does not contain humility. The universe, though not a personified entity, has a very peculiar sense of humor. It is capable of serving such persons' relationships that are up to time and letting them get drunk as if on power, until one fine day it grabs them by the scruff of the neck and they suffer a palpable loss. 

So motivated persons are lost to magic. They don't care about their own lives; they live out the fictional lives of others. 

Conclusion

To practice love magic or not? That will depend on each person. Moreover, love magic alone as a way of ensuring the beginning of a relationship is not as exciting as practicing this magic while in a couple. It is the will of both for each other that stops it from being a matter where we have to watch the lines of fate and the contradiction of will.

Love magic is also one where one practitioner of magic makes sure that the relationship lasts. And when it oversizes and overpowers the will of the other, it ends up like with Sigurd, who found his way to his valkyrie through death from a woman imposed on him by sorcery. In the end, she, Gudrun, paid for her mother's sorcery rather harshly in the next relationship as well. 

Love magic is also about opening the door to the other's world and letting them do the same. It has incredible depth.

Love magic includes the practice of getting rid of someone. They work with people with whom it's a superficial relationship. I don't recommend the application between spouses, especially when there are children. Here, it is absolutely necessary to take something away and set up relationships for the future. Otherwise, it will backfire in the future. 

I don't like breaking someone's will, and it is not my ambition to be a poor puppet master who uses magic to shape the will of others. For this reason, when I make up such a ritual, I put safeguards in it so as not to make a puppeteer out of someone else. It is often enough to open a gate on a path that is broken, and it is already up to the will of the other to actually enter. For it is not in anyone's power to chain another person forever. It's not even worth it. If the gate is opened properly, someone we do not know can unexpectedly enter and bring happiness to our lives.

Most laymen think that it is enough to light a candle and immediately have a dream partner.  In general, I call candle magic "all in good time". They represent just that instant solution which, when you take the power of the operator, can perform a vampiric effect of energy flowing through a vein. Conversely, when a candle and its flame are used to concentrate on changing the mindset, it tends to be a great help. 

Love magic doesn't have to be taboo. It can be worse than necromancy when a New Age person takes over. Manipulation only works here until the Wheel of Fortune puts someone stronger than us in front of us. Then suddenly it all adds up. It can be done with respect and sensitivity or as a slimy manipulation that will one day destroy the one who uses it. How do I know? I grew up on real stories where love magic has corrupted more than one witch who wanted to control the stories and lives of others.